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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
That may all be perfectly true, but it is so far removed from two people of equal gender who want to marry, that it is practically a separate topic. That example from China in your last paragraph has nothing to do with a same sex plebiscite. 

Not all gay people want kids, and those that do are mostly just normal folks who will in all likelihood choose conventional methods.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
Yes well, in respect of your first sentence, the fact that it may not be real for most folks is in itself part of the problem. I thought as a scholarly summation it was very good, and well worth knowing and reading.

I can't comment on the rest of your post, except it sounds a bit alarmist to me. The thin end of the wedge is the same logical fallacy that is always used in situations like this. No doubt there were some in the past who thought giving any rights to indigenous people meant that we would all end up in loincloths, carrying spears, and eating worms.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
In your opinion.  Others hold the opposing view.  Does that make either party wrong- a terrorist is a freedom fighter viewed from the other side.

We are all beneficiaries of same sex marriage, because we all benefit from a society that is more inclusive, tolerant, fair, just and equitable. It's not only gay couples who benefit.

I am not a post modernist, no am I a cultural relativist. Everyone has equal right to express an opinion, but that doesn't mean all opinions have equal value. Some opinions are just sh1t, no matter how you slice them.

I have no idea what terrorism has to do with this.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
I suspect as a teenage boy he isn't yet ready to embrace the idea. At 15 I would not have been either.
If you had asked a 15 year old me, I would have firmly been in the no camp, I know I would.
I think a lot of teenage boys are still 'against' homosexuality no matter what we teach them.
I found homosexuality something strange and not something that I was exposed to at all.

I believe the 'no supporter' as put would likely turn their views around, but I will let him come to the conclusion in his own time.
Of course that wouldn't be the case if he was hateful in his opinion.

As I have said I am happy to let both my children form their opinions (as long as they are also respectful of others) and feel free to talk through them without me picking them apart.

My son is also 15, he would vote yes. I just asked him.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
No worries.

As you can see, I seek only to understand with my questions.

No doubt. I hope all that questioning leads you to vote yes. A yes vote is a vote for a better and more equitable society. And plus, as Jerry Seinfeld put it, "You have no idea how your life is gonna improve as a result of this. Food tastes better. The air seems fresher. You'll have more energy and self confidence than you ever dreamed of."  :P
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
You are on a slippery slope PaulP, why introduce religion?

Thry has the right to hold any religion and belief he likes as long as it operates within the laws of the land, and nobody better than yourself should know that!

All you need to go over the edge is introduce racism!

It's a very simple question - I have no power over Thry or anyone else on these forums - if he declines to answer, that's ok by me.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
+1 its irritating me to the point of madness.

The other thing that is irritating me, is the fact that the "no" vote boosters are getting no right to campaign (I don't care what basis is used to justify that, its wrong).

You can't have a proper election by silencing one side so why would this apply in a discussion which is ironically promoting marriage equality?

It seems to have missed the point somewhat and the meaning of the word.

I doubt there are any genuine, legal or other impediments stopping the no voters from campaigning. They probably realize they need to operate by subterfuge because their position is untenable nonsense.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
Paul
Not all groups are represented equally and they won't whilst the distribution in the population isn't equal.
But here is the thing, all polls point to most Australian's agreeing with the cause, but like every cause, it has to follow process.

It doesn't matter if it was equal or not equal.
Because people have been bullied in the past (or now) it doesn't excuse passing that to another person.
As for the 'fight' being fair. You are right, it isn't, but not in the way you are stressing.

It isn't poo pooing as you call it over name calling. It is bullying and it is specifically trying to impact peoples lives for their views. A gay couple apparently come out against gay marriage and was apparently hounded with calls of being homophobic etc.
What if it was to turn into a slanging match on both sides? There is nothing dignified and respectful about that.

Nothing can be said that justifies the attacks on people for their views. It is unnecessary and ridiculous.

MIO, I think we're moving in ever decreasing circles on this topic.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
I understand why it happens also, but I don't respect or empathise.
A cause starts to lose people once it loses moral high ground and attacking people and their livelihood was enough to do it for me

I think the words and actions need to be seen in a broader context, more specifically in a context of power relations. As I stated earlier, most of the power resides in the conservative lobby - political power, media power, social power, historical power etc. The gay lobby is under represented in all these areas. The fight isn't fair at all. The poo pooing of the gay lobby for name calling needs to be seen in such a context. Bullying is not the same on both sides, not does it carry the same weight, or sting.

If society and politicians had some sense to begin with, things would not have devolved to this point.