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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Domestic violence and why the government will struggle to attention the problem.
Last post by kruddler -
Thanks for sharing Mants.

It raises many questions.

One of which Lods touched on....how does the story end....or at least up to this point in time.

Secondly, how has society changed today (if at all)? What changes need to be made to stop it from happening now and in the future.

Finally, What is the best way to deal with these issues
a) If they have happened to you
b) your family
c) your friend
d) your neighbour

I'm not sure if i have the answers to any of that, which is somewhat worrying.
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Robert Heatley Stand / Re: AFL Rd 8 2024 Post Game Prognostications Carlton vs Collingwood
Last post by cookie2 -
Acres did certainly make a few glaring errors but he had quite a few mates. Even so we didn't lose by much and with a bit more luck including  umpires' calls we may have just got over the line even so.
Imo we were just a bit light on for critical talent, but the Pies were also missing a couple.  I'm confident we could knock them off   on another day.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Domestic violence and why the government will struggle to attention the problem.
Last post by dodge -
Holy Moly Mantis.  I wasn't going to take you up on your offer of sharing by DM as I wasn't sure as to why I would want the details.  Now you have shared, thank you so much.  What will I do with this?

A mate of my son's parents are going through a nasty separation.   There was abuse in the marriage - nothing like you've experienced, but still there - to the point where the mate was starting to display some of the same abusive attributes.  The kids are also in the same footy team, which has some really well rounded adults supporting and encouraging - they know some of mates situation.  It drives me to help support and be an adult role model for not only mate, but the whole team (as much as you can) and likewise for my son's cricket team and to encourage others to do the same.  Will it make a difference? I hope so. 

Thanks again, Mantis, for opening our eyes to understand more about what goes on behind locked doors.

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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Domestic violence and why the government will struggle to attention the problem.
Last post by ElwoodBlues1 -
Horrendous story Mantis and brave of you to share it with us, as others have said I hope you have had some professional help later in life and are coping ok. My wifes family had a similar issue with her father who was of Italian/Croatian heritage but nothing like the extreme violence you have been through. Unfortunately I dont see there being an easy fix other than providing more safe places where mothers, children can flee to avoid the violence and with the lack of housing etc I cant see Governments being able to solve the problem or even being able to put a dent in it. Education at the junior level may reduce the amount of incidents later but its going to take a while to see much change sadly...take care of yourself and hopefully a premiership isnt too far away to bring you some small joy.