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Robert Heatley Stand / Re: AFL Rd 3 2026 Post Game Prognostications Carlton vs Melbourne
Last post by Baggers -This is not new. We've seen this movie over and over for quite some time now.
We've changed the game style, but not what is between the lugholes of our blokes. Same old, same old. You can paint stripes on a donkey and tell it to now run fast and hunt...
Bottom line: we're an embarrassment with no respect from other clubs. We have all the mental grit, resilience and strength of a turnip. But this is of our own making. How come this group is so demoralised that it can only operate when things are going their way... and easy?
Vossy admitted he's a glass half full kind of guy, looking for positives to focus on. All too often those who rely on positive thinking only do so because they're sh*t scared of negatives... reality. Fear based. Confronting fears (negatives) requires courage. Confronting the mindset of what happens to our blokes when pressure and change comes might just reveal the issue(s). We're courageous with our bodies, but not with our minds and hearts. Why?
Im torn about this. Constructive criticism is the way of today. Look at kingsley and the Giants. He has gone the rant and rave, and now thats the only way to get a reaction out of his team.
Positives are good, they reinforce good behaviours. Negatives are fine, for the right type of player, but some of ours, wont wear it they drop their heads, and then become dissillusioned.
Sorry 3 Leos, I guess I didn't make myself clearer. I don't see negatives as bad nor would I focus on negatives to players. You're right, positives used well and properly encourage good habits. Constant berating of players doesn't work.
What I mean is that minimalizing negatives is dangerously close to avoiding fears and problems which is often disastrous... as evidenced by our wilting in games. By focussing on positives only, we've avoided facing and dealing with the very real issue and problem of wilting, which has been around for quite a long time. Hoping that a positive focus only, will solve all negative problems is a folly. Now, it cannot be ignored any longer.
There's a reason our boys revert to safe mode when under the pump. What are we failing to confront?
