Re: CV and mad panic behaviour
Reply #1558 –
Well said.
I have some first hand experience here, and it's a mixed bag. I'm referring to the fact that my father is in aged care and has been for 3 years. He's 86 and has emphysema - 70 years of smoking. Still drinks a half bottle or so of whiskey a day, but apart from his lungs, all other organs are 'normal'... yep, even his liver - must be the Danish blood, seems to like alcohol (I rarely touch the stuff though). And mentally he's as lucid at 50 years agol
As the medical power of attorney I have plenty to do with the aged care home (BaptCare). The first thing I notice whenever I go into the place is that I can't wait to get out. Depressing. Many of the staff seem to be recent arrivals to Australia and this is an easy employ avenue, sorry if that sounds racist/xenophobic (it aint) but when I am gleaning info on my old man and English is not the first language of the person helping me we immediately have a communication problem... some of these people are just impatient and even rude - they obviously don't like the job. Looking after elderly humans requires special people, very special and a few where the old man is are just bloody brilliant in terms of saint like patience, joyfulness and a genuine deep interest/care. Mixed bag overall.
The overwhelming thing that comes across when walking around the home is the cost cutting. Very little effort re special initiatives to interest and engage the old folks, only the dead basics - many still have their minds and love a chat. More like 'shut them in their rooms, give them their meds, turn on their TV (baby sitter) and leave'. In some respects, crims in prison are engaged more with meaningful tasks.
The meals would be enough for some of us to neck ourselves. Bland and dead basic. And I know it aint easy feeding large numbers of people but (here he goes again about the Navy) the feeds we had in the Navy, whether land base or at sea, we bloody fantastic and plenty of variety. More cost cutting.
It is sad to see how our elderly are accommodated in these aged care homes (care? FO!). Baby sitting with the bare essentials until they cark it seems to be the underlying philosophy, and in the mean time... cha-ching! Most, if not all, of these folks have worked hard, paid their taxes, contributed and then this is how they get to spend their finals years? Shunted away and forgotten. Some cultures keep their aged working/engaged/useful until they drop... better way to go out. But some folks need expert daily medical care so being with the family is unrealistic but they could be mentally engaged with some activities (not fckn basket weaving!!). Then there are those, like my old man, who are just so disagreeable they couldn't live with family.
The Minister for Aged Care should spend a week, unannounced, in one of these homes... in fact, all pollies should spend some time in one - unannounced of course so the home doesn't get to bung on a show.
The entire system needs an overhaul with an emphasis of meaningful daily activities, better meals and employing only those who really are suited to aged care.