Re: Alan Jones
Reply #20 –
Sorry 3 Leos, but nuh. Most abused people as kids actually don't pass it on. Enough do for it to be a statistic, but not an inevitable reason.
Many victims of abuse either deal with it (therapy), lock it inside (later disaster/emotional collapse), act out angrily or self-medicate with some addiction to numb and distract themselves from the trauma. Anecdotally, I know plenty of folks who experienced abuse as kids and did not pass on that abuse (for a variety of reasons).
In fact most narcissists/sociopaths are so due to brain injury and/or faulty brain wiring (put bluntly) and/or an horrendous upbringing.