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5523
Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
You are on a slippery slope PaulP, why introduce religion?

Thry has the right to hold any religion and belief he likes as long as it operates within the laws of the land, and nobody better than yourself should know that!

All you need to go over the edge is introduce racism!

It's a very simple question - I have no power over Thry or anyone else on these forums - if he declines to answer, that's ok by me.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
+1 its irritating me to the point of madness.

The other thing that is irritating me, is the fact that the "no" vote boosters are getting no right to campaign (I don't care what basis is used to justify that, its wrong).

You can't have a proper election by silencing one side so why would this apply in a discussion which is ironically promoting marriage equality?

It seems to have missed the point somewhat and the meaning of the word.

I doubt there are any genuine, legal or other impediments stopping the no voters from campaigning. They probably realize they need to operate by subterfuge because their position is untenable nonsense.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
Paul
Not all groups are represented equally and they won't whilst the distribution in the population isn't equal.
But here is the thing, all polls point to most Australian's agreeing with the cause, but like every cause, it has to follow process.

It doesn't matter if it was equal or not equal.
Because people have been bullied in the past (or now) it doesn't excuse passing that to another person.
As for the 'fight' being fair. You are right, it isn't, but not in the way you are stressing.

It isn't poo pooing as you call it over name calling. It is bullying and it is specifically trying to impact peoples lives for their views. A gay couple apparently come out against gay marriage and was apparently hounded with calls of being homophobic etc.
What if it was to turn into a slanging match on both sides? There is nothing dignified and respectful about that.

Nothing can be said that justifies the attacks on people for their views. It is unnecessary and ridiculous.

MIO, I think we're moving in ever decreasing circles on this topic.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
I understand why it happens also, but I don't respect or empathise.
A cause starts to lose people once it loses moral high ground and attacking people and their livelihood was enough to do it for me

I think the words and actions need to be seen in a broader context, more specifically in a context of power relations. As I stated earlier, most of the power resides in the conservative lobby - political power, media power, social power, historical power etc. The gay lobby is under represented in all these areas. The fight isn't fair at all. The poo pooing of the gay lobby for name calling needs to be seen in such a context. Bullying is not the same on both sides, not does it carry the same weight, or sting.

If society and politicians had some sense to begin with, things would not have devolved to this point.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
Paul

On neither side is bullying an okay practise and I agree that those fed up have often been bullied along the process, but you can't take that out on someone expressing an opinion.

Their is a platform to try and facilitate change and it can be done respectfully by all parties.
Otherwise people are going to get their backs up.

If this is handled correctly the change will occur (I think it will regardless), but there is absolutely no excuse for bullying at all.

There's no excuse for it, but i can understand why it happens. And tbh, I empathize with them.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
Yes they did, it's called bullying, and the very side doing the name calling claims they are victims of it!

There is an old, a very old saying; "The smeller is the fella!"

The point is that, given enough provocation, the gay lobby will occasionally lose its cool. For decades they have defended themselves against all sorts of conservative BS - that their lifestyle is immoral, against God and the Church, that they want to turn the kiddies into poofters and lesbians, that they support pedophilia etc. The fact that they will lose their rag occasionally is perfectly understandable IMO, and should not in any way be used as an excuse to avoid the wider issues at play.  
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
There are no excuses for physical or verbal abuse.

Two wrongs do not make a right, leave that to the anarchists!

Good lord. Somebody called somebody else a bad name. The Constitution is collapsing.

The conservative lobby hold most of the power. The playing field is not level at all. But sure, let's "debate" this topic for another 100 years. We don't want to rush any decisions.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
Do you blame them for going out of their way to attack people for their views or beliefs?
Isn't that exactly the thing we should be fighting against?

Getting the sh1ts doesn't allow for people to be ar$eholes.

I am sticking by not voting for all the reasons outline Paul and the moment I thought it was
A) Binding
B) Done without prejudice for or against peoples right to vote based on their own guidelines.

Then I would vote yes.

That's your choice, matey. As much as this whole plebiscite is a sham, it is currently the only thing we have to voice our opinions.

The point I'm making is that all of us have limits. The marriage equality lobby has let fly because they've had enough. As I said, this has been going on for decades. Sometimes you have to call out an idiotic opinion / position exactly for what it is. There is such a thing as provocation, even provocation masquerading as decades of stalling, "debates", etc.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
Perhaps the marriage equality lobby has had enough of trying to be neutral, civil etc., and can't be bothered pandering to idiots any longer. This "debate", in various guises and forms, has been going on for decades. Even the most patient group or individual would be fed up by now. I don't blame them for getting the sh1ts.

I hope you reconsider your position and vote MIO.
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Blah-Blah Bar / Re: Father's Day ad pulled!
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I was indifferent to the whole idea, I don't see how a piece of paper matters so much that we can waste hundreds of millions of dollars on such an issue. This isn't like the right to vote!

Especially when the country has so many other more important issues that could be easily addressed with that money.
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It matters a lot to gay people, and rightly so. It's not just a piece of paper. The paper has legal, moral and symbolic weight attached to it. A small quote from Elton John :

"There is a world of difference between calling someone your 'partner' and calling them your 'husband'. 'Partner' is a word that should be preserved for people you play tennis with, or work alongside in business. It doesn't come close to describing the love that I have for David, and he for me. In contrast, 'husband' does."

The money angle has nothing to do with gay people. That such a concept even needs an opinion poll is laughable. Blame the pollies.